Negotiation 101
Okay, so we all know the 101’s of negotiation, right? It’s how you get what you want in BDSM. Well, actually there’s a little more to it than that. Today we’ll be discussing two of the dominant styles of negotiation in the kink world, and which one might be right for your next negotiation. This is also known as opt-in or opt-out negotiation.
Your Task: Watch the Evie Lupine video below and then complete the rest of the steps listed below it.
Your Reward: In addition to furthering your online BDSM education, you can also use these concepts and techniques in your real life play sessions with other partners.
In order to be a good Goddess, I need to get to know dozens of slaves and respond personally to each one of you. I am not a mind reader and I don’t like to play guessing games. I am incredibly busy and simply don’t have time. I am not just asking about your preferences to be polite.
Consent, connection and discussion are mandatory to play with me. Both yours, and mine. If you expect me to be an effective and worthy Goddess, then I need more information from you. I want to know all of your deepest desires so that we can discuss them and maybe even explore them in a professional fantasy role play session some time. Don’t make me guess. I don’t want to. I won’t.
Complete the following steps:
1: Watch the video above titled Inclusive vs Exclusive Negotiations [BDSM] and understand the difference.
2: Exclusive Negotiating is where you list the things you’re not interested in and everything else is fair game.
3: Inclusive Negotiating is where you list the things you’re interested in and anything not listed is off limits.
4: In my realm, I use Inclusive Negotiating. This means that before a role play session, we will set the scene first to discuss what will be included. We will only include things which have specifically been discussed ahead of time.
5: Please read this article about the Basics of Negotiating a BDSM Scene.
6: Send a message to my VIP OnlyFans account which says “I’m ready to negotiate, Goddess”.
7: Patiently await my reply to your message. Response times for the VIP account are usually within 24-48 hours.
I know that I have given you a lot of information to take in today. Take some time to digest it and think about it.
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